Every now and then, I hear somebody ask…

“Am I too old to crossdress?” or “Am I too old to transition as a woman?”

The simple answer to this question is NO.

Whether you are 33 or 73 – and whether you aim to express yourself through crossdressing, or live as a woman full time – it’s NEVER too late to be your true femme self.

Life is short and you deserve to make the most of your precious time on earth.

Does this mean you should act on every frivolous whim that crosses your mind? Of course not. And obviously, life-changing moves like hormones or surgery need to be given serious thought.

But I believe the true desires or your heart are meant to be expressed – no matter how long they’ve been buried.

In fact, embracing your feminine side can give you a whole new lease on life. I see it all the time: People seem to grow years younger when they make the decision to be themselves fully.

Having the courage to express your true self also inspires others to do the same. The world needs more of this!

In the words of Laverne Cox, “It is revolutionary for any trans person to choose to be seen and visible in a world that tells us we should not exist.”

I’ll say it again: You are NEVER too old to be your true femme self.

So go for it, girlfriend: Buy the shoes, schedule the makeover, contact the gender therapist – or do whatever it is that you’ve been holding back on.

You deserve it. And it’s not too late.

Do you agree that age is just a number?

Now I’d love to hear from YOU on this topic …

How old were you when you decided to embrace your fab femme self? (Or are you still waiting?)

Let’s continue the conversation in the comments below!

Love,
Lucille

P.S. Want to feel more confident about expressing yourself as a woman – at any age? Hypnosis and guided meditation can help. Click here to try my FREE “Unleash Your Inner Woman” feminization hypnosis MP3!

by @ikbendaf

Transgender counseling can be essential to having a normal, well-adjusted life, regardless of whether you are considering a full transition. Because transgender is a much-misunderstood term, transgendered individuals often find themselves objects of speculation and ridicule.

In addition, the road to self-acceptance and understanding can be a difficult and even bewildering experience for many transgendered individuals. Unfortunately, not every counselor who claims to work with the transgendered population actually provides help, making it necessary to know what to look for when choosing a therapist.

Transgender therapy is not simply an extension of basic counseling, although there are counselors who claim to serve the transgendered population and work under that assumption. There are similarities between transgender counseling and other basic types of therapy, however.

Both should offer a safe, secure, confidential place to talk, allowing you to discuss your feelings, thoughts and fears without reprisal, embarrassment or having your words made public. In addition, counselors should be supportive, helping you work toward self-awareness and self-acceptance, without being manipulative or abusive.

There are several specific things to look for, and to expect, in transgender counseling. A good counselor will know the difference between transgender and gender identity disorder, which seem similar but are very different. In addition, transgender therapy is not meant to cure you, and counselors should not be trying to fix you or pass judgment.

Instead, a good counselor will help you learn to understand and appreciate who you are, as well as helping you to understand all of the options available to you. Transgender counselors should offer couples and family counseling, too, in order to help everyone around you learn to accept you and deal with the issues that are bound to arise.

They will also offer referrals to, or help in locating medical, legal and financial assistance. Counselors will also help you connect to transgender groups that support transgender individuals and families through shared experiences.

The ultimate goal of transgender counseling is to help the transgendered individual accept their uniqueness, rather than hiding it away in shame or confusion. While it is easy for transgendered people to become isolated, often due to denial and withdrawal, counselors can help you fully integrate in all areas of society, including the home, workplace and places of worship. Although there are counselors who will manipulate or in some way abuse the transgendered client, knowing what to look for and what to avoid will help you find the best counselor for you.

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