Are you as addicted to sexy shoes and boots as I am?

The right pair of shoes can instantly transform the way you look, feel, and walk. That’s why a girl can never own too many pairs!

Since shoes are so important to your feminine image, I wanted to share some tips on selecting the perfect shoe style.

Read on for my top 7 shoe picks for crossdressers and transgender women!

1. Classic black pumps

What could be more chic than a pair of classic black pumps? They add a polished look to any outfit. For the most mileage, choose a closed-toe, full back style with a heel that’s high enough to help loosen up your hips as you walk.

2. Ballet flats

You don’t have to wear high heels to look feminine! Ballet flats are a fantastic option, especially if you’re on the tall side or want to look pretty and stylish without sacrificing comfort.

3. D’Orsay pumps

The d’Orsay is a beautiful and elegant pump style where the sides are cut away to reveal the arch of the foot. D’Orsay pumps are perfect for showing off shapely legs – an asset for most crossdressers and transgender women.

4. T-straps

T-straps add a sexy touch to pumps, high heel sandals, and flats. T-strap shoes have two distinct benefits:

• The ankle strap offers extra support for your ankles, making it easier to walk in them.

• The vertical line of the center strap balances the horizontal ankle strap and makes your legs look longer. (T-straps are more flattering than ankle strap shoes.)

5. Nude heels

If you’re on a budget, nude heels will give you the most mileage since they can be worn with literally any color of outfit. Choose a nude tone that blends in with your skin to make your legs look miles long – an added bonus!

6. Wedges

Still trying to master walking in heels? Then consider a wedge heel. Since the sole covers more ground, they’re much easier to walk in. One caveat: Wedges have a chunky look, they are best for girls with thin legs. Stay away from them if you have large or muscular legs.

7. Tall boots

Boots are sexy and sassy, so they’re a wardrobe must. Choose knee high boots for the most elegant look. Tall boots are more flattering and slimming than ankle boots or boots that hit the middle of the calf.

Let’s talk shoes!

So, back to my original question… Are you as addicted to shoes as I am?

I own 32 pairs of shoes. What about you? Take my poll and let me know! (And don’t forget to upload a photo of you in your favorite shoes!)

Love,
Lucille

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Body language is a big part of your feminine image. In fact, it counts for over 50% of the impression you make on people.

Is your body language telling the world that you’re a fabulous female? In not, it’s time to fix that!

Body language consists of:

• Posture
• Gestures
• Facial expressions
• Eye contact

Here are 5 dos and don’ts for mastering confident, feminine body language:

1. DO work the S-curve

Curves are a classic feminine feature. Beyond a bubbly booty and ample bosom, you can use your posture to enhance the curves of your body. Create an S-curve by putting your weight on one leg and pushing your hip out.

Contrast this to a more masculine posture where the weight is evenly distributed between both legs. This creates a more square and angular silhouette.

Here are some tips for working the S-curve:

• DO keep your weight on one side of your body instead of centered.

• DON’T exaggerate this posture. It should look natural.

• DO work the s-curve when you’re seated by crossing your legs or sitting with your weight on one hip.

2. DON’T take up too much space

A wide, open body position is considered a “power pose.” That’s why you often see men spread their legs and lean forward at the shoulders. They’re essentially puffing themselves up to look larger than they are.

On the other hand, a more closed position will make you look more feminine and elegant. It also makes you appear physically smaller.

You already know that a lady keeps her knees together. But beyond that, you should keep your elbows in and avoid taking up too much space with your limbs. (By keeping your feet tucked close to your chair, for example.)

Here are some additional tips:

• DON’T slouch in an attempt to appear shorter or smaller.

• DO stand and sit with lifted posture. Think “tall” instead of “wide” with your body posture.

3. DO mind your gestures

Gestures are an important part of body language. Women tend to be more expressive with their gestures than men. Next time you’re out, notice the way women use their hands and bodies to express ideas when they talk.

To master fluid, feminine gestures:

• DON’T make jerky or clumsy movements. Keep your elbows tucked in and don’t move too quickly. Practice making slow, smooth movements in front of a mirror.

• DON’T overdo your gestures. Observe women to get an idea of the correct balance.

• DON’T fidget. Avoid nervous movements like twirling your hair, shaking your leg, or tapping your fingers.

4. DON’T forget your facial expressions

The expressions you make say as much as the words that come out of your mouth. If you’re feeling nervous, it’s easy for this to be reflected on your face. On the other hand, a pleasant facial expression puts people at ease and helps you get the respect and acceptance you deserve.

Tips to keep in mind:

• DON’T wear a stoic expression. What feels “neutral” to you may come across as grumpy to others.

• DO put on a pleasant face. Keep the corners of your mouth turned up slightly. (This also serves as a natural facelift!)

5. DO make alluring eye contact

Eye contact is a major way to gauge a person’s personality. People who don’t make eye contact appear insecure or as if they’re hiding something. People who look you in the eye appear confident and sincere.

Here’s how to use eye contact to make a feminine impression:

• DON’T avoid people’s eyes. Be proud of who are you are and look people in the eye.

• DO make eye contact and hold it for a second or two. (But not too long unless you want people to think you are trying to seduce or intimidate them!)

Let’s talk body language!

Body language is a fascinating topic and these dos and don’ts are only the tip of the iceberg. Let’s continue the conversation below!

What other subtle body language differences have you noticed between men and women? Do you have any other tips to pass along?

Please share in the comments below!

Love,
Lucille

P.S. Want to learn more about how to to master your feminine presentation? Sign up for my free 3-part Male to Female Makeover Course here!

=> Lucille Sorelle is the author of the “Stepping Out Secrets Ultimate Feminization Kit”

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