Do you ever feel misunderstood?

Sadly, there’s a lot of ignorance out there. That’s why I decided to put together a post debunking some of the most common myths about crossdressers and transgender women.

Let’s start with one of the BIGGEST myths of all:

Transgender women, crossdressers, and drag queens are all the same.

Uh, NO.

I created this site to be a welcoming place for transgender women, crossdressers, and those on all sides of the gender spectrum. But as you know, these are distinct groups and the terms aren’t interchangeable.

Here’s how the GLAAD Media Reference Guide defines some common transgender terms:

• Transgender women – People who were assigned male at birth but who identify as women. Many transgender women are prescribed hormones or undergo surgery, but transgender identity is not dependent upon medical procedures.

• Crossdressers – Men, typically heterosexual men, who occasionally wear clothes, makeup, and accessories associated with women. This activity is a form of gender expression and is not done for entertainment purposes. Crossdressers do not wish to permanently change their sex or live full-time as women.

• Drag queens – Men, typically gay men, who dress like women for the purpose of entertainment.

• Gender non-conforming – A term used to describe some people whose gender expression is different from conventional expectations of masculinity and femininity. The term is not a synonym for transgender or transsexual and should only be used if someone self-identifies as gender non-conforming

• Non-binary and/or genderqueer – Terms used by some people who experience their gender identity and/or gender expression as falling outside the categories of man and woman. The term is not a synonym for transgender or transsexual and should only be used if someone self-identifies as non-binary and/or genderqueer.

Now that the record has been set straight, let’s look at some of the most common myths about crossdressers and transgender women.

7 Myths About Transgender Women

1. Being transgender is a choice.
2. Transgender people are gay.
3. Transgender women aren’t “real” women.
4. Your sex is defined by your chromosomes and/or hormones.
5. You have to have surgery to be a “real” transgender person.
6. You aren’t transgender until you start HRT.
7. Kids and teens are too young to know if they’re really transgender.

7 Myths About Crossdressers

• Crossdressers are gay.
• Crossdressers are perverts.
• Crossdressing is a psychological problem.
• Crossdressing can be cured.
• Crossdressers want to change their sex.
• Crossdressing is a destructive addiction.
• Crossdressers can’t be good husbands or fathers.

Have you heard any of these myths before? They’re frustrating and hurtful, aren’t they?

It’s time for the world to wake up and realize this truth:

Your gender is who you are on the inside. There are infinite gender expressions and all are valid!

GLAAD has some excellent resources to spread awareness of transgender issues. I highly recommend checking them out.

Recommended Resources from GLAAD

• Transgender FAQ
• Tips for Allies
• GLAAD’s Work on Transgender Issues
• Report Defamation
• Transgender Resources

Now let’s hear from you…

What’s the truth that YOU’D like to set straight? Let’s continue the conversation in the comments below!

Love,
Lucille

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YouTube has become an amazing place to find inspiration for your feminine journey. In this post, I’ve compiled my top 6 transgender and crossdressing YouTube channels.

I’m sure I’m missing some good ones, so please share your favorites in the comments so I can add them to this list!

1. Gigi Gorgeous

The most popular transgender YouTube star, Gigi Gorgeous has over 2.7 million YouTube subscribers. She’s transgender activist, author, television personality, actress, model and LGBTQ icon.

2. Princess Joules

Julie Vu is a Canadian transgender woman with a passion for makeup artistry and fashion. She’s known for sharing her transition and life experiences authentically on Youtube in hopes to educate and change people’s perspective on transgender people.

3. Juliette Noire

Juliette Noire is a crossdresser from the UK. She says, “I try to create videos to openly discuss issues that affect the Trans community and specifically the wonderful individuals that make it a fabulous place to be. I upload some serious stuff and some that’s not-so-serious but in general I’m hoping to add a reasonable voice to the debate.”

4. Jazz Jennings

Jazz Jennings is a 17-year-old transgender girl looking to create acceptance and equality in this world. The video above was posted a few years ago, but it’s just as relevant as ever!

5. Vera Wylde

Vera Wylde is a genderfluid burlesque performer, model, and author. She spent years identifying as a crossdresser and has seen so many dressers of all ages struggle with what they are and what they’re doing that she’s endeavored to help as best she can.

6. Nikita Dragon

Nikita Dragun is a YouTuber, make up artist, and model. She has over 2 million YouTube subscribers and came out as transgender in 2015.

What are YOUR favorite transgender / crossdressing YouTube Channels?

I’d love to hear from you in the comments below. Please share YOUR favorite transgender / crossdressing YouTube channels so I can add them to this list!

Love,
Lucille

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