Do you want to look younger, prettier, and more feminine? If so, try changing your hairstyle! There’s no easier way to improve your appearance.

The secret is to choose a hairstyle that helps soften strong facial features (like a prominent nose or jaw) while making your eyes and lips POP! Your hair should also be in proportion with your overall body size.

Here are 6 of the best hairstyles for crossdressers and transgender women. (These work whether you wear a wig or style your own natural hair!)

1. Side swept bangs

Candis Cayne, Transgender Actress

Bangs are a great option since they draw attention to your eyes while hiding a prominent brow ridge. Bangs also make you look cute and youthful! Straight bangs can highlight angular facial features, so go for soft, side swept bangs instead.

2. Layers

Jenna Talackova, Model and Miss Universe Canada’s First Transgendered Contestant

Layered hairstyles tend to be much more flattering than hair that’s all one length. Face framing layers soften your features and add texture and volume to your hair.

3. Soft waves

Laverne Cox, Transgender Actress and Activist

Soft waves are super sexy and feminine. Waves also add volume to your hair, making thin hair appear fuller. Most crossdressers and transgender women look great with full, wavy hair that balances out strong facial features and a larger body frame.

4. Shoulder length hair

Caitlyn Jenner, Transgender Celebrity

Shoulder length hair is the best option for most women, including transgender women. Hair that’s too long drags down your face and looks “old Barbie” after a certain age, while hair that’s too short can look masculine. Shoulder length hair is very feminine and help conceal a strong jaw and thick neck.

5. Side parts

Carmen Carrera, Transgender Model and Actress

Middle parts can be tricky since they make your face look longer and highlight your nose and chin. Side parts are more flattering and can be worn by anybody with any face shape.

6. Highlights

Ines Rau, Transgender Model

Finally, don’t forget about color! Highlights brighten your face and look softer than a single block of color. There are lots of options besides blonde highlights – women with dark hair look fantastic with light brunette or auburn highlights.

Make everyday a good hair day!

Nothing can boost your appearance like a fabulous hairstyle. As you can see from the tips above, the key is to think SOFT – soft cuts, soft texture, and soft color – to balance and feminize your features.

What’s your take on this topic? Are you happy with your hair or is it time for a change? Share your thoughts and show off a photo of your hairstyle in the comments below!

Love,
Lucile

Are you as addicted to sexy shoes and boots as I am?

The right pair of shoes can instantly transform the way you look, feel, and walk. That’s why a girl can never own too many pairs!

Since shoes are so important to your feminine image, I wanted to share some tips on selecting the perfect shoe style.

Read on for my top 7 shoe picks for crossdressers and transgender women!

1. Classic black pumps

What could be more chic than a pair of classic black pumps? They add a polished look to any outfit. For the most mileage, choose a closed-toe, full back style with a heel that’s high enough to help loosen up your hips as you walk.

2. Ballet flats

You don’t have to wear high heels to look feminine! Ballet flats are a fantastic option, especially if you’re on the tall side or want to look pretty and stylish without sacrificing comfort.

3. D’Orsay pumps

The d’Orsay is a beautiful and elegant pump style where the sides are cut away to reveal the arch of the foot. D’Orsay pumps are perfect for showing off shapely legs – an asset for most crossdressers and transgender women.

4. T-straps

T-straps add a sexy touch to pumps, high heel sandals, and flats. T-strap shoes have two distinct benefits:

• The ankle strap offers extra support for your ankles, making it easier to walk in them.

• The vertical line of the center strap balances the horizontal ankle strap and makes your legs look longer. (T-straps are more flattering than ankle strap shoes.)

5. Nude heels

If you’re on a budget, nude heels will give you the most mileage since they can be worn with literally any color of outfit. Choose a nude tone that blends in with your skin to make your legs look miles long – an added bonus!

6. Wedges

Still trying to master walking in heels? Then consider a wedge heel. Since the sole covers more ground, they’re much easier to walk in. One caveat: Wedges have a chunky look, they are best for girls with thin legs. Stay away from them if you have large or muscular legs.

7. Tall boots

Boots are sexy and sassy, so they’re a wardrobe must. Choose knee high boots for the most elegant look. Tall boots are more flattering and slimming than ankle boots or boots that hit the middle of the calf.

Let’s talk shoes!

So, back to my original question… Are you as addicted to shoes as I am?

I own 32 pairs of shoes. What about you? Take my poll and let me know! (And don’t forget to upload a photo of you in your favorite shoes!)

Love,
Lucille

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