Wearing lingerie is a guaranteed way to feel feminine. Best of all, it’s something you can indulge in on a daily basis.

What are the lingerie items every (or at least, almost every) crossdresser and transgender woman should own?

Read on for my top 10 picks!

1. Basic black or nude bra

Every girl needs a basic bra, so a simple nude or black bra is a must. If you’re having trouble finding your size, try the Leading Lady Lightly Padded Contour Underwire Bra. It comes in a wide range of sizes that would fit most crossdressers and transgender women. (Band sizes 36-54, cup sizes A-G)

2. Panty gaff

For a flat and feminine look, a panty gaff is your best friend. A gaff, of course, is an undergarment designed to offer smoothing up front. Here are a few options:

• Classic Gaff by The Dress Form Store

• Super Strong Hiding Gaff by Suddenly Fem

• Lace Control Panty Gaff by Glamour Boutique

3. Shaping camisole

Who can’t use a little slimming in the middle? A shaping camisole will help trim your waist and belly without squeezing you like a corset or girdle. I like the camisoles from Yummie Tummie, which go up to a size 3x.

4. Padded panty

If you crave curves (and who doesn’t?), padded panties offer an instant solution. Your options range from light lifting to full-on hip and butt shaping. Here are a few of my favorites:

• Light shaping – Butt Lifting Padded Panties By TrueShapers

• Medium shaping – The Glamour Gal Silicone Hip and Butt Padded Shaper

• Full shaping – Veronicas by Classic Curves

5. Nude or black pantyhose

While women don’t wear pantyhose as often as they used to, pantyhose looks more polished than bare skin and enhances the appearance of your legs. Your lingerie wardrobe should include a pair of black and/or nude hose.

6. Slinky nightie

There’s nothing like slipping into a slinky nightgown to make you feel extra feminine. Whether you prefer long or short, you should own at least one silky nightie. Or better yet, buy a few in different lengths and colors.

7. Basic panties

Sometimes simple is best! Whether you prefer thongs, bikinis, or briefs, you should own at least a few basic panties.

8. Sexy bra and panty set

While the basics are important, half the fun of lingerie is expressing your sensuous side. That’s why no wardrobe is complete without at least one super sexy bra and panty set.

9. Nubra

The Nubra is an adhesive bra that’s fantastic for creating cleavage. Since it’s backless and strapless, it can be worn alone or under another bra. To learn how to create feminine cleavage with the Nubra, see my tutorial here.

10. Silk or satin robe

A silk or satin robe is a classic boudoir piece that will make you feel ultra feminine. You should have at least one so you have something sensuous to slip into when you are at home.

Let’s talk lingerie!

It was hard to narrow this list to just 10 items, so I’d love to hear your thoughts…

What are YOUR must-have lingerie pieces? Please share (and better yet, include a pic) in the comments below!

Love,
Lucille

One of the perks of being a girl is getting to carry a purse. More than just a stylish accessory, your purse is a toolbox for your femme self.

And while a cluttered bag isn’t chic, there are some essentials you shouldn’t be without. You never know what life will throw at you – and a lady is always prepared!

Read on for 15 things worth keeping in your purse at all times.

1. Cell phone

How did we ever survive in the pre-cell phone days? My phone is always the first thing I pack.

2. Lip gloss or lipstick

A moisturizing lip gloss or lipstick in your favorite shade is a femme essential.

3. Mints or gum

Freshen your breath on the go by keeping a stash of mints or gum on hand.

4. Nail file

Don’t let a broken nail cramp your style.

5. $ 20 cash

Even though most of us rely on credit or debit cards, you never know when you might need some cash.

6. Hand cream

Avoid that dry hand feeling with a tube of hand cream.

7. Blotting paper or powder

Reduce shine on the go with blotting paper or powder.

8. Bobby pins

These come in handy if you need to secure your wig or tame some loose strands of hair.

9. Compact mirror

A must-have for checking your teeth or makeup.

10. Stain removal pen

The sooner you treat an unexpected stain, the less likely it is to be permanent.

11. Band-Aids

Not just for cuts and scrapes, a Band-Aid can relieve blisters caused by new shoes.

12. Safety pins

Those can be a lifesaver if you break a strap or pop a button.

13. Emergency info

Not to be a downer, but if anything should happen, this could literally save your life.

14. Advil or Tylenol

Keep a couple painkillers on hand in case you get a surprise headache.

15. Healthy snack

Hunger can sneak up on you, so keep a healthy snack bar or some nuts in your bag.

What are YOUR purse essentials?

They say you tell a lot about somebody by what she keeps in her purse! Are you a stylish survivalist or do you prefer to travel light?

I’d love to know what YOUR purse essentials are, so please share in the comments below!

Love,
Lucille