Happy New Year, girlfriend!

Have you thought about how you want to honor and express your femininity this year?

It’s not too late to give your femme self a fresh start!

I’d love to know what your resolutions are, so please share them with me in the comments below.

Not sure what to focus on?

Here are 10 male to female resolutions worth trying in 2016:

1. Improve your feminine voice

Achieving a feminine voice is a great goal for the new year. Check out Kathe Perez’s YouTube channel for some free resources to get you started.

2. Train your waist

Who doesn’t want a smaller waist, flatter tummy, and better posture? Done properly, waist training offers a lot of benefits. The Lingerie Addict has a great guide on the basics of waist training here.

3. Meet new people

It’s important to have people in your life who support you. If you lack this, make an effort to get out and meet new people. Thankfully, there are lots of crossdressing and transgender support groups, Meetups, and conferences out there these days.

4. Stop overeating

Maintaining your weight is a big part of looking your best as a woman. It’s not just WHAT you eat, but how much. Here are 6 ways to stop overeating.

5. Be more polite

Women tend to be more polite than men, so improving your manners is an simple way to be more feminine. It also makes you more attractive in general! Here are the 10 habits of remarkably polite people.

6. Learn how to dance

Dancing isn’t just a great workout… It’s also one of the best ways to develop more fluid and feminine body movements. Here are some beginner dance workouts you can do at home:

• Luscious: The Belly Dance Workout for Beginners
• The Exotic Dance Workout
• Sexy Salsa: Solo Moves for Beginners

7. Stop beating yourself up

No matter where you are in your journey, you deserve to love and respect yourself. Do you criticize yourself a lot? If so, it’s time to let go of that habit. Here are 5 ways to stop beating yourself up.

8. Take more chances

It’s easy to get stuck in a rut and do the same thing day in and day out. It’s also depressing! Taking chances (despite your fear) is a great way to build confidence and continue growing.

9. Improve your style

The first thing people notice about you is your clothes. Improving your style can have a huge impact on your feminine image! Check out Inside Out Style for tons of helpful fashion advice.

10. Get more sleep

Are you getting enough beauty sleep? If not, improving your sleep is one of the best improvements you can make for 2016. Here’s a fantastic free sleep improvement program from hypnotist Glenn Harold.

What are YOUR femme resolutions for 2016?

I’d love to hear about them, so please share in the comments below!

Love,
Lucille

There are so many things that go into perfecting your feminine look…

Now that it’s the dead of winter (at least in the Northern Hemisphere), you’ve got the added challenge of freezing temps.

But that doesn’t mean you can’t look feminine and sexy despite the cold!

Here are 3 tips – specifically for crossdressers and MTF transgender women – on how to feminize your look for the winter.

1. Wear a shape-enhancing coat

Your coat is the first thing people see when it’s cold. In fact, it might be the ONLY thing they see you in, so it’s an important piece in your feminine wardrobe.

Here are some dos and don’ts to consider:

• DON’T add unnecessary bulk with a puffy or oversized coat.

• DO try a belted coat to shape your waist.

• DON’T wear double breasted coats if you have a wide chest. (Single breasted styles are more slimming)

• DO look for coats with princess seams or pleats and gathers around the hips to feminize your shape.

2. Go for bright colors

Don’t blend in with the gray, dreary weather. The best way to look pretty this time of year is to wear bright colors.

Instead of a basic black winter coat, why not try something fun? Coats come in a rainbow of colors these days and range from pastels to jewel tones.

If a neutral coat is more your style, you can still add a touch of bold color with your scarf, hat, and gloves.

3. Choose the right boots

Wearing cute boots is the best part about cold weather!

But if you’re walking on ice and slush, heels are a nightmare. This does NOT mean you must resort to chunky, unattractive snow boots.

Instead, look for boots with a wedge heel. The height of a heel adds sex appeal, while a rubber wedge sole gives you traction so you don’t slip.

Let’s see your winter look!

Even if you don’t go outside en femme, these tips can still apply. Why not be a snow bunny for your next private photo shoot? You don’t have to show skin to look sexy!

I’d love to see your favorite winter look, so please share your photos below!

Love,
Lucille