There’s nothing like silky smooth skin to make a girl feel extra feminine!

Hair removal is an essential part of your feminine image. But let’s face it – when you’re dealing with lots of facial and/or body hair, it’s easy to go wrong.

The secret to a smooth, hair-free chest, soft feminine face, and silky smooth legs lies in avoiding some common mistakes.

Here are 5 male to female hair removal mistakes to avoid – and what to do instead!

Mistake #1: You didn’t exfoliate

All methods of hair removal can cause ingrown hairs, particularly in the beard, chest, and pubic area. You can reduce ingrown hairs by exfoliating your skin 2-3 times per week. Exfoliation helps get rid of dead skin cells that trap the hair.

To exfoliate, gently massage your skin with a washcloth, loofah, or exfoliating scrub. (My favorite exfoliation tool is The Body Shop’s exfoliating body polisher.)

It’s best to exfoliate before you remove hair instead of after you do it. Exfoliating too soon after hair removal can irritate your skin.

Mistake #2: You forgot to moisturize

Dry skin is another cause of ingrown hairs, so it’s important to keep your skin hydrated. (Besides, you want the added benefit of soft, glowing skin, right?)

A great moisturizer to use immediately after hair removal is pure aloe vera gel. Aloe vera is a natural moisturizer and skin soother. Perfumed lotions can irritate freshly shaved, waxed, or lasered skin, so avoid them for the first 24 hours after hair removal.

Mistake #3: You didn’t treat ingrown hairs

Exfoliating and moisturizing help prevent future ingrown hairs – but what should you do about existing bumps?

Avoid the temptation to shave over ingrown hairs or dig for them with a needle. These tactics can lead to infections and scarring. Instead, try an ingrown hair treatment such as Tend Skin, PFB Vanish, or Kalo Ingrown Hair Treatment.

Mistake #4: Your DIY was a DON’T

Professional waxing, electrolysis, and laser hair removal treatments are expensive, so it’s tempting to try them on your own. But be careful…

Newbie waxing mistakes – like waxing over the same area twice, pulling the hairs in different directions, or pulling too hard – can lead to rashes, bruises, and torn skin. Not a sexy look!

If you insist on doing it yourself, pay for some professional waxing treatments first so you can observe the proper techniques.

Home laser and electrolysis kits aren’t as effective as professional systems. Although girls have been reporting success with the No!No! Hair Removal System, the risk with these products is that they’re expensive and don’t always deliver results. Be sure to read reviews and do your research.

Mistake #5: You got what you paid for

I’m all for beauty bargains, but don’t let price be your sole criteria when choosing a place for hair removal treatments.

A cheap price tag often means a wax job with a bunch of stray hairs left behind or a patchy laser treatment. At worst, you could end up with burns or scars.

Check the qualifications of the person treating you and read the reviews on any place you are considering. Yelp is your friend!

Also, keep in mind that upscale places tend to put more emphasis on comfortable treatments. If you’re a waxing or laser wimp like me, it’s worth spending a bit more for a less painful experience.

What’s YOUR favorite hair removal method?

This is a hot topic, so I’d love to hear your thoughts! What’s your hair removal method of choice? Are you a diehard do-it-yourselfer or a pampered princess who loves her spa treatments?

Take my hair removal poll below and leave me your comments!

Love,
Lucille

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Are you ready to reveal your most fabulous feminine self?

If so, the right tools are a must! Some of these items are obvious, but others are essentials you might not have thought of.

Keep reading to discover 10 must-have items for your male to female transformation:

1. Breast forms

Breasts are arguably the most feminine part of a woman’s body. Unless you’re blessed with your own curves, breast forms are essential. (Of course, you’ll also need a cute bra to put them in!)

2. Color corrector

Is there a bigger beauty DON’T than a beard shadow?

While you might be tempted to cover imperfections with heavy concealer, it never looks natural.

Instead, invest in a pink or red color corrector to first neutralize the tone of your beard shadow. This allows you to use less makeup and gives you a more natural and feminine look.

(Note: Check out The Makeup Magic Program to learn pro techniques for concealing a beard shadow, feminizing your face with makeup, and much more.)

3. Panty girdle

A panty girdle is a great multi-purpose garments that trims your waist, flattens your belly, and smoothes your male parts.

Panty girdles come in brief and long leg styles:

• Choose the brief style to wear under short skirts.

• Opt for the long leg style to wear under pants and longer skirts.

4. Perfume

The right perfume can make you feel irresistibly feminine!

The secret is to choose a fragrance that matches the qualities you want to express:

• Go for floral scents if you want to express your romantic side.

• Choose oriental or woody scents if you want to bring out your inner seductress.

5. Black pantyhose or tights

Bare legs might be trendy now, but in cooler months, nothing beats the polished look of hosiery. Classic black pantyhose or tights are a style essential.

If you’re going to wear pantyhose, be sure to choose the sheerest hose possible and only wear jet black pantyhose. (Avoid grey-black and brown-black tones.) Or wear opaque tights for a more youthful look.

6. Lipstick

Studies show that a woman’s lips are considered the most attractive part of her body – especially when she is wearing lipstick. Lipstick is a must-have item that will instantly make you look more feminine and attractive.

7. Classic pumps

Shoes say more about you than any other accessory. You can’t go wrong with a pair of classic black pumps. They’re sexy, feminine, and work well with many types of clothes.

Think you are too tall for heels? Even a 1″ kitten heel has impact, so there’s a pump out there for everybody.

8. Moisturizer

Due to higher testosterone levels, males generally have rougher skin than women do. Get a facial moisturizer and use it daily (whether you are en femme or not).

Moisturizer makes your skin look smoother and helps your makeup go on better and last longer.

9. Little black dress

The little black dress is a wardrobe staple every crossdresser and transgender woman should own. A simple black dress in a flattering length can go from day to night and will never go out of style.

10. Attitude

Finally, the most important thing you can possess is a great attitude!

People treat you the way you expect to be treated – so be as femme and fabulous as you want to be. You deserve it, girlfriend!

Now I’d like to hear from YOU!

What must-have items are in your transformation toolbox? Please share with me in the comments below!

Love,
Lucille

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